Tuesday, June 10, 2008

The unholy communion

You have an unholy relationship with the holy man, said he. I have the holiest communion with him, said she. Friendship, said she. Rules are different for you and I, said he. He said, she said, it all followed - both willing to give a life and a limb for this issue...

How many of us are in this situation everyday? Day in and out, you ought to defend friendships. Do you really have to evaluate the gender of a person before you recruit them as your friends? Right from and through my childhood, I've had more boyfriends than girlfriends. I was more tomboyish instead of being the delicate Barbie's buddy. Life gave me more responsibilities, and I am rather proud to have been very successful in this men-dominated world. My dad looks at me for all decisions that he makes, and I've often won. Sometimes, he frowned...but he smiled when I fought to make my conceived thoughts successful...should I change for someone? I decided NO.

Life is a melee...too precious. Each stone in the melee is worth a thousand memories. Jas, when I see the very many people around me in war, I think of you - you've been a blessing! God has proved again that when in confusion, I should seek him, I did, and I won. Just as always - absolutely victorious!

No comments: